pick up the book 'The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce' By Judith Wallerstien (and a few others). It's a 25 year landmark study that followed the same kids over a 25 year period after their parents split up. I can't begin to tell you how much it helps to know that you're normal!! (I would also encourage anyone in relationship with said persons to take a gander at it.)It is sad and tragic the lasting effect that divorce can have on kids. It really is true: a child learns what they live. People, our children appear highly resilient, but they carry (usually silently) the effects of their childhood their entire lives!
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shelley, i finally remembered the addy to your blog. i love the pics. the words are yours. the boy i am in love with, his parents divorced when he was a kid, too. i will pick up the book and read it well. it wasn't by accident to find that, tonight. thank you, sweet friend. chrystal
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